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Re: To Maneless

From: maneless to Lily
Date: 30 May 2001
Time: 11:47:12
Remote Name: 198.81.17.42

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Lily,

Yes! he did dump on you and you are missing hair. Doesn't that show men pick on women missing hair? Aren't you mad? Do you have any spunk or spirit woman? I can't believe you put up with this shit, You're a human being. For Christs sake, your mate is supposed to be the person you can count on most in this world. When the rest of the world is miserable your mate is supposed to be the one place you can find kind and gentle solace. I can not believe you put up with this shit from him.

Lily, he knew you were losing your hair. He knew you were hurt. He knew you felt your relationship with him was vulnerable to other women, and he knew you felt less desirable than other women. And yet he picked this time (when you were missing hair, and at your most vulnerable) to cheat on you. He cheated on you when you most needed him to let you know that, in his eyes, you are the only woman on earth. He had a choice: he could either make you feel worse or better about your hairloss, and he chose to make you feel worse. Given that, because of your hairloss, you were already feeling less desirable than other women, you needed to be taught that you are the only woman he wants, and yet instead he increased your feelings that you are less desirable than other women. Instead of making you feel better about your hairloss he did the exact and specific thing that would surely make you feel worse about your hairloss. He showed you that, in his estimation, you are right, your hairloss makes you less desirable than other women. He showed you that by having sex with other women when you already felt "less than" other women.

I'm sorry sorry Lily.

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